"As lace signifies refined beauty and elegance, so a marriage of thirteen years exemplifies polished and perfected love. The passage of time has created a delicate but strong object of beauty."
Our marriage is not flawless nor perfect but I can say that it becomes stronger and stronger as years passes by. Some people have predicted that we won't last long but here we are, we have known each other for 14 and married for 13 years.

We are so different in so many ways but we somehow work together so well. Here are 13 things that we are so different.
1. He is opinionated, I am not..
When it comes to certain topics like politics, he voice his opinion of what he believes in and I like it because I am not into politics but he gives me plenty of ideas. Being a former military guy, he always based his opinion on facts so you can't really argue with him about it. Politics is something that his family don't really talk about because they often clash.

2.
He is a talker, I am not
What I love him being a talker is that, he doesn't just talk of nonsense, everything that he talks about make sense. I am a very good listener so I love when I can learn things from somebody who love to talk like my husband.
3. He is a spender , I am a saver. He love to shop more than I do. What I love about it is that, he can shop but he always asks my permission about things that he wants to buy before purchasing it. When I was single, I live off of what I can afford, I never had a single credit card but that chanfed when I came here. I don't like having debts as it stresses me out. I remember when I firt got here in the US, his credit card debts is almost 14 thousand and it made me worried. So I straightened out our finances and within a year, we paid off his 14k credit card debt.
4. He is a planner, I am not. When it comes to doing trips and vacations, I always rely on him to do that. He is really good in finding deals and setting up things. I do the packing and prepare all the things that we need for the trip.
5. I love fish, he doesn't. But he loves sushi and I don't! Wheneer I cook fish at home, he is not into it although he etas what I cook lol. When we dine out though, he always eats sushi and I have nothing to do with it.
6. I love to organize, he does not. It doesn't bother him if the house is messy but it drives me crazy. I want things in order so when things are at mess, my brain is scattered all over the place and I can't work like that.
7. He is a generous gifter, I am more practical. When I give gifts, I always think of practical ways of what the person needs but he loves to spend on expensive stuff. I grew up without any fancy stuff so it doesn't really matter what I receive as a gift. He made me realized that over here it's different.
8. He tend to have Mañana Habits, I love doing things "Right now".
Whenever I want to do things, I want to do it right away because if you put it to the next day, chances are you'll forget it. He drives him crazy sometimes but it makes the things needed to be done, DONE right away.
9. He loves to drivem I do NOT! When we go on a roadtrip, I feel bad for him because he does all the driving. I have no desire in driving. I feel like the world is a better place if I don't drive so I would love that to stay that way. I know it is necessary as we have kids but as long as I can avoid it, I would. My driver's license is only used for identification purposes. I love that he respect my decision about it.
10. He is a big Kid at Heart, I am on the Serious side . He loves to play with kids and I love that about him. I am more laid back and love to do serious stuff with the kids.
11.
I love to cook, he does not.
My love for cooking did not start until I met him. When I was single, I never liked to cook. I usually buy ready-to-eat food because I was just living by myself. My husband love to eat so when I met him, I thought of learning how to cook because my Mom used to tell me that my husband wouldn't like it if I can't cook. Now, I love cooking for my kids and my husband. He is not fond of cooking. Although once in a while, he offers to make breakfast for us.

12.
He love to bake, I do NOT!
Baking is not my forte, although I bake sometimes but I don't love it. I think that has something to do with what we had growing up. We didn't have oven at our home, the very first time I experienced baking was when I was in high school because it was one of the majors to choose from when you reach 3rd year. I would have loved to choose dress making but I couldn't afford to buy materials so I chose food trades as we do contribution for every meal we cook or bake. My husband on the other hand love to bake, I am so glad my daughter got my husband's interest in baking.
13.
He love SWEETS and SALT! Me, not so much.
When it comes to sweet, he doesn't say NO. That's his biggest downfall in maintaining weight (or losing). I can eat sweets but not too much. My level of salt is low but his is pretty high.

Well, that sums up our 13th year for now. Our differences is what makes our relationship stronger. Here's to more years of love and happiness! May God gives us both a long and healthy lives to enjoy our future grandkids.